Story Pages by Adults

These days there are several dating websites which promises to bring 2 bodies and make them as one soul. However, it is often found that most of these dating services or dating web sites are bogus. They rip your money and leave you with sweet dreams which you might have dreamt of doing with your partner. Somehow, I never trusted them and I felt that it is better to directly approach a girl you like and express your likeliness or your love for that girl rather than using the services of any dating web site. I am a marriage counselor and I counsel many couples who come to me to save their marriages. I have witnessed that most of my clients have met each other through some or the other dating services. I once encountered a strange incident where the guy who met the girl with the help of one such dating service was fed up with the girl for not being passionate enough during their love making sessions. The guy told me how he met the girl and proposed her while having a candle light dinner. Initially, the couple found themselves to be very happy with each other but as and when days passed, they started quarrelling for small things which never happened earlier in their life. This incident forced me to unearth the reason between their failed relationships. I studied few such cases and came to the conclusion that the dating services gives big promises to people and show them nice and sweet dreams but somehow they do not fulfill those promises.

Guys find the services of these dating web sites to be pretty good as they say that it makes their life exciting but once the excitement gets over, then it also leads to the end of the relationship. I have also witnessed very few of the cases where the couplesare very happy with their partners and have all praises for the dating service. Being a marriage counselor, it sometimes become very difficult for me to explain people that marriage is all about how much you love your partner and how much you care for your partner. If these things are absent, one cannot drag their married life and call it as a successful one. I sometimes hate my profession specially after finding myself incapable of handling cases where couples come to me with the intention of getting separated. It makes me feel pretty sad when I see 2 bodies which were once one soul parting ways. However, this is what life is and we have to accept the brutal truth.